And with a jolt, I realise just how old I am. I am too old to be anyone’s First.
With the pace of life being what it is, men all over have fallen in love at least once, twice, 5 times already. With her eyes, with her hands, with her words that taste like moonlight on a starry day. The past is beautiful, it would be wrong to deny it. And I don’t deny mine.
So, I’m too old to be anyone’s first.
I will be the one with Those eyes.
The one with Those hands.
The one with the words. Some words.
Sometimes, I’ll be the rebound girl.
And I’m ok with that. But he won’t be.
The first, as few or many know, is sacred. Veiled. Perfect in ways that defy logic and hindsight. It is constructive in ways so precious that whole chapters are written in autobiographies about the First. The timeless. The effortless. The immortal.
Anything after that is just After That.
I, with my idiosyncrasies synchronised to go off at the worst of moments, will never match up.
Once you’ve had an immortal, there is no beauty in sad poetry, far-off gazes, and off-tune music. There is no beauty in jagged ends. There is no beauty in walls.
There is time, and there is patience, and with the pace of life being what it is, I’m just too old.